Love, do you ever feel like you’re constantly wishing for more?
A new car that doesn’t come with mystery noises.
A home with just one more bathroom.
A puppy that somehow trains itself.
It’s easy to get caught up in longing for things we don’t have yet, but what if the secret to getting what you want faster is shifting how you want it?
Instead of wanting from a place of lack (the ugh, why don’t I have this yet? feeling), let’s flip the script.
Let’s talk about wanting from a place of already having—a mindset shift that makes manifestation feel less like a struggle and more like a natural part of your life.
💡 What Does “Wanting from a Place of Already Having” Even Mean?
It means believing your desires are already on their way to you.
Instead of feeling stuck in “I need this to be happy,” you start thinking, “I know it’s coming.”
It’s the difference between chasing something in frustration versus letting it flow to you because you’re already in an abundant state of mind.
✨ Gratitude: The Secret Ingredient
Gratitude is the easiest way to shift from lack to abundance.
Try this: Instead of focusing on what’s missing, take a moment to recognize what’s already good:
✔ My kids are safe and healthy.
✔ Dinner made it to the table (even if it was cereal).
✔ My home is cozy (even if the laundry pile is winning).
✔ My car isn’t fancy, but it gets me where I need to go.
When you focus on what’s already working, you naturally attract more of it.
👀 Visualizing with Gratitude
Manifestation isn’t just about wishing—it’s about feeling like it’s already happening.
💭 Close your eyes and picture yourself already living your dream.
😌 Feel the joy, relief, or excitement as if it’s happening right now.
🙌 Say “thank you” for it as if it’s already yours.
This tiny shift makes all the difference.
📝 Set Intentions with Gratitude
Instead of saying, “I want more money,” try:
💰 “I’m so grateful that more money is flowing into my life.”
Instead of, “I want more time for myself,” say:
🕰 “I’m thankful that I’m creating space for rest and joy.”
Words matter—speak as if it’s already happening!
🚀 Taking Action (Without Overthinking It)
Manifestation isn’t just about mindset—it’s also about doing the thing when the opportunity comes.
⚡ Notice those little nudges (the idea, the invite, the random inspiration).
⚡ Take small, doable steps (not the overwhelming, all-or-nothing kind).
⚡ Trust that each step is bringing you closer.
🏖 Letting Go of the “How”
This might be the hardest part—releasing control of how and when things happen.
You don’t have to force it. You don’t have to obsess over it.
Just like you wouldn’t dig up a planted seed every day to check if it’s growing—trust that what’s meant for you is unfolding exactly as it should.
✨ Hold the vision, trust the process. ✨
💖 Final Thoughts
When you want something from a place of already having, life feels lighter. You’re not chasing—you’re attracting.
So today, love, try this:
📌 Find gratitude for right now.
📌 Speak as if what you want is already yours.
📌 Take little steps when they show up.
📌 Trust that what’s meant for you is coming.
Because it is. 💕
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